Two months ago, I was rejected by TedX.
For those who don’t know, this has been a goal of mine for almost 10 years.
I was upset, and make no mistake, I am still upset, and as I am learning setbacks are a gift.
I know, when you are in the middle of it, it sure doesn’t feel that way.
It takes time and distance to view setbacks as a gift- Professor Haston
Let me explain what I mean.
First, here are the numbers-
I get a little upset every time I read these numbers because each one represents a rejection, and without measuring the rejection, I think the victory (When and If it happens, since that is NOT up to me) is less sweet.
If I am really honest with myself (which I don’t really like doing, and it’s necessary) I was not in a place emotionally, financially or any of the “lly” ilk to give this my all.
My Poppa Joe died, I was working hard on a new role, and new industry, transportation, and well life was being super duper lifey. Yep, lifey. Don’t try to tell me it’s not a word, I just made it up.
Now, things have settled (see also time passed) and I am able to look back and SEE that the timing was not right.
It does NOT negate the sadness or disappointment or rejection I feel and it’s a useful way to help make the sting less painful.
Now let’s talk about you, dear readers.
What setback are you facing that needs reframing?
Also remember, it might not be time yet to reframe, you might still be too close to it to SEE.
Give Yourself Time.
Think About It.